I’m back in the UK.

Minus The Boy.

His decision.

I’m not ok.

I’m hoping it’s just a break.

So sorry if I’m not around much.

23 thoughts on “News

  1. respectableside says:

    Firstly no apologies….you don’t have to apologise for anything at all. Secondly be nice to yourself right now, take time out, let yourself work through it and lean lean lean as much as you need. This is the best place for you to be right now…meaning the UK….allow yourself to just be and i’m keeping everything crossed you two can work this out xxxxx


  2. miss*H says:

    oh pinkjellybaby I’m so sorry! Like respectableside said the UK is the best place for you to be with friends and family around you. Maybe some time apart will do you both good. Mr W and I have had a break and it is very hard to understand when it’s not your decision but don’t give up on what you have yet if its meant to be it will work itself out (i’m sorry that sounds like a horrible cliche and isn’t much comfort!)

    Sending you hugs!



  3. blue soup says:

    There’s a massive amount of love attached to this comment. Call any time DAY OR NIGHT if I can help. Of course, there are things I can’t do, but if there is anything, anything at all… xxxxxxxx


  4. Lucy says:

    Big love also attached to this comment. If you ever want to talk I’m always here. xxx


  5. Hannah says:

    oh honey, I wasn’t expecting that. Spend lots of time with your friends and family. Big hugs xxx


  6. smidge says:

    Aww honey, you are in the right place. Obviously we dont know the full story, but if its his choice then you need space, friends, family and plenty of tlc, plus time to think things through about what you want, not what he wants.

    Remember that we are all here for you, anytime xx


  7. Georgia says:

    Ditto above. If u need to chat then u know where I am! I know we’ve not met but feel like I’ve known you for years and years so if u want a coffee or something I don’t live far away! Just say the word! I’m a good listener!


  8. thank you all so very much

    it says a lot that I have told you all before I’ve even told my ‘real life’ friends

    just trying to keep my head at the moment and not dissolve into pieces



  9. Date Girl says:

    I’m so sorry to hear that. Definitely came from out of the blue. We’re all here for you. I can understand you telling us first, we’re kind of the sounding board for whatever you need to say. We’re here to listen, cry with, and share virtual ice cream. Lots of hugs, and just know that it’s ok to dissolve into pieces, at least for a little while.


  10. Eleni says:

    Oh no, I’m so sorry. At least you’re in the UK where friends and family can help take your mind off things. Hopefully it’s just a break, and he’ll remember how wonderful and beautiful and talented and sweet you are. But even if he doesn’t, you’re still wonderful and beautiful and talented and sweet!


  11. LizSara says:


    Are you near? Do you want to get drunk and trash the world? Or drink tea and pretend to be zen? Or watch Hollyoaks for hours? Or just anything?

    and never feel you have to apologise to us lot, we love you x


  12. Lpeg says:

    I had an inkling that this was what you were alluding to over at SLG. I’m so sorry hun. If there’s ANYTHING we can do, please let us know. Lots of hugs, and thoughts. xx.


  13. Oh mate, I’m so sorry to hear this. It sounds all very sudden … what they said about family and friends .. they said this to me but really do take advantage of all those shoulders they eventually start to help. Don’t do anything stupid and try and get back with him right now, take the time out to sort yourself out and to clear your head before you go wading in (not that I think you’re going to do that). You’ll both be making much more sense when you talk again if you’ve had some time to think and reflect. Also it will give him to time to realise what he’s losing if you let him go (for a while).

    I’m sure you have many other friends and all the people above, but if you ever need to get away or get wasted or whatever you want, just say. I’m only 20 mins away by train xx


  14. Huwie says:

    I’m so sorry to hear this.

    Don’t know what else to say.

    Thinking of you.


  15. Jo says:

    Argh, god. Needless to say I know exactly how you’re feeling. It’s horrendous, my stomach’s lurching just thinking about what you must be feeling right now. Success stories are all around you though, regardless of the outcome. Hope that makes sense xx


  16. Fabulous says:

    Have emailed you.
    Dont be sorry. You need time.
    Put yourself first ok.
    Kisses. x


  17. Sebastian says:


    I wondered what had happened.

    Just in time for Winter, it seems 🙂



  18. chele says:

    Darling, I am so sorry and it breaks my heart to read this.
    I truly truly hope you guys will work it out somehow and all that is needed is time.
    I am here whenever you need someone to rant to or just let it out to.
    I am so sorry, sending all my love to you.


  19. I really need to reply to all your lovely comments….and I will…soon, I promise xx


  20. Totally and completely understandable if you take time away from blogging or the computer in general. Hopefully it’s a break and he realizes the huge mistake he made. But either way, BIG HUGE GIANT HUGS. If you need anything, even just someone to rant to, don’t hesitate to find me on Twitter or email me.


  21. Paula says:

    Oh man, I was really hoping I was wrong! I really hope you are okay. Having been there MANY times, I know how it feels so if you need a sympathetic ear or whatever, feel free to email me. 🙂 For what its worth, I think you are doing well putting a brave face on it online anyway. x


  22. Yes you are doing very well. You are beautiful and absolutely lovely, he is a bloody fool. Where will he find someone like you? Crazy, crazy man xxx


  23. I’ve only had half a glass of wine x


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